What is Your Message?

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“If you bring forth what is within you,

What you bring forth will save you.

If you do not bring forth what is within you,

What you do not bring forth will destroy you.”

-Gospel of St. Thomas


“You are not here to tell stories. You are here to deliver a message.” I woke up one day with this phrase spinning in my head like a mantra. It got me thinking, and it got me a whole new career I had no intention of pursuing (at first)… I wrote a book and became a “messenger”…

I am here to deliver a message to you…

            Message—is the energy in the story,

            It is “Water” in the container, 

            “Medicine” in the pill.

It transforms people’s lives and it lives through the ages.  You have a message to deliver. As a matter of fact, your entire life is this message.

The other day I told you how critical your story, your voice, your presence, your body language are for success…. All of the above are the tools of delivery! But what will you deliver?

What is your message?

What is your promise?

What do you want your audience to learn?

What do you want them to learn about you?

Why is it important to you?

Why should it be important to them?

Who are they?

In my Warrior Speaker Boot Camp, we will touch upon these questions and more to connect you to your core, your why, your purpose and the authentic message that only you can bring forth to the world, and you must! We will also discuss and practice techniques of audience control and preparing yourself for speaking.

Only 1 day left to register and only 3 spots left. You have opened this email, you are reading these words. You know that I am speaking directly to you right now.


Register here.

I see YOU on Saturday.

Coach Faye


Are you saying what you are saying?

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“If you want to find the truth, do not listen to the  words coming to you. Rather see the body language of the speaker. It speaks the fact not audible.” ~Bhavesh Chhatbar 

Did you know that only 8% of our communication is communicated through words? Body language accounts for 55%!  How aware are you of your body language? What are you saying without saying?

Watch this video to learn more:

In my Warrior Speaker Boot Camp I will teach you the techniques on how to improve your body language.

“I got sooooo much from this group! Thank you!!!!… In no way it could be done “home alone”.  Need a Coach Faye Kitariev M.A. and a group!” Irina Shulkin, previous WSBC attendee.

To register for the WSBC click this link.

This is your chance to learn body language of confidence and success and dramatically increase your effectiveness in all areas of your life. If you haven’t yet, be sure to claim your place right now. Only 5 seats left. Register here.

The next person to sign up will receive a Bonus: a 45 minute 1-on-1 Discovery session with coach Faye personally, valued at $500.  Only 1 Bonus session left.

If you are my previous, or current student or a graduate of WSBC and would like to repeat the training, email Heart (coachfaye@coachfaye.com) and receive a 25% discount code.


To your success,

Coach Faye

P.S. Tomorrow we will take on Elevator Speech.

High Performance Voice

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“His voice is deep and gravelly. I once heard one of the girls say that he had the voice of a sex god, but because I’ve never really heard what a sex god sounds like, I can’t verify that.” – M. Marcchetta

He sent me a wink, I sent a smile, he sent a message, I sent a response. On-line dating at it’s best. Ever experienced that? Okay, I admit it! I fell prey to on-line marketing machine promising to find you the “forever-after-perfectly-engineered-scientific-match.”  After five-line exchange it was obvious that we were meant for each other and agreed to Skype for our first date. My search was over, and at the appointed time we exchanged the first “Helloes!”  And right there in an instant it was all over for me. I couldn’t stand hearing his high pitch, monotoned voice, not at all a voice of a “sex god,” not my “sex god” anyway. No matter how much I tried to convince myself to change my mind. I politely found a way to finish a conversation and we never talked again. It wasn’t his fault, and he never even knew why I didn’t want to continue.

Until that day I never gave a thought to the power our voice carries in everyday communication, relationship, presentation or business. However, it wasn’t apparent to me that we can actually train our voices so they sound in a way that people want to hear us. We don’t have to be stuck with only one voice! As a matter of fact we should have different voices for different situations. To become a world-class speaker I sought out the best voice teachers in the world. Just last weekend was spent at the Voice of Success intensive with renowned Roger Love. Roger trained such stars as Tony Robbins, John Grey, Brendon Burchard as well as illustrious singers— Jacksons and Beach Boys. My friend, Giedrius Reklaitis, took scrupulous notes during the training and put them together. He graciously allowed me to share his notes with you. Click here to read his notes.

When you attend Warrior Speaker Boot Camp this Saturday, you will learn and practice the best of the voice exercises I do daily. These exercises were specifically distilled for their effectiveness to produce the fastest results in improving strength of your vocal cords, volume, pitch, tonality and projection.

You can’t even begin to imagine the tremendous value you will receive from attending WSBC!

To learn more about it, click here. You can still get an Early Bird Discount if you register now, and as a special BONUS for the first ones to take action —45 min private consultation with me, valued at $500!!! But… you must fill out this questionnaire.

I am thrilled to be your coach and guide to success!

Coach Faye

P.S. Tomorrow, we will talk about body language for congruent delivery of your message. Stay tuned!

The Power of Your Story

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“A beggar had been sitting by the side of a road for over thirty years. One day a stranger walked by. “Spare some change?” mumbled the beggar, mechanically holding out his old baseball cap. “I have nothing to give you,” said the stranger. Then he asked: “What’s that you are sitting on?” “Nothing,” replied the beggar. “Just an old box. I have been sitting on it for as long as I can remember.” “Ever looked inside?” asked the stranger. “No,” said the beggar. “What’s the point? There’s nothing in there.” “Have a look inside,” insisted the stranger. The beggar managed to pry open the lid. With astonishment, disbelief, and elation, he saw that the box was filled with gold.”

I loved this story from the moment I heard Eckart Tolle sharing it. Stories just stick with me and they stick with our customers, fans and followers…

The truth is, most of us are “beggars.”  We “sit” on the “old boxes” full of stories we lived through. Some of these stories were hard won battles some lost ones. We take them for granted, believing  “there is nothing in there.”

Like many, for the longest time, I lived in the space of “who needs to hear this….” One day I attended a seminar, where everything changed! The speaker told his personal story in such a way that I realized there wasn’t one story in my life that belonged to ME! I was selfish to hold down to them on one hand— they could potentially change the lives of so many people! On the other, shared, they could change mine! I was literally sitting on the “box filled with gold!”

Divorce? Great!

Bankruptcy? Better!

Disease? Amazing!

Not only I could feel better inside myself as I chose to look at everything as if it all happened for my highest good, but also help others for the highest good of all concerned!  I started teaching this to my clients, and they have begun reporting crazy results! Patricia Garza, Founder of EvolMotion, not only took her business to the next level, but also won an award for the Most Influential Latino Woman in SoCal!

In my upcoming workshop Warrior Speaker Boot Camp, I will teach you

  1. How to share your story for the biggest impact
  2. Help you to find the right story to share
  3. Give you a feedback as you will practice sharing your story.

If you are a business owner, you are most likely missing out on one of the most powerful resources in your possession. People make millions of dollars and change the lives of millions of people with nothing more but a well-presented story!

Are you serious about your business, life, making a difference? Register for the Warrior Speaker Boot Camp NOW. This is the last workshop of the year!

WSBC is an exclusive and private event! I expect it to be sold out. Register early for an Early Bird Discount. Go here NOW. First 3 people registering for the event and filling out this questionnaire will also receive a BONUS—45 min private consultation with me, valued at $500!!!

Don’t wait, open your “Old Box” now, and see what’s inside!  Register NOW!

P.S. Of course, to share your story well you need to have a VOICE! Tomorrow, I’ll tell you about the voice and give you awesome tools you’ll be able to use right away. Stay tuned!


To your success,

Coach Faye





Are You Missing Out On The Greatest Resource Available To You?…

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Do you want to have more confidence, vibrancy, focus, rapport and influence? If the answer is “YES” read on…

Yesterday, I sent you a letter where I introduced you to the 7 areas of focus for successful speaking (and business) with the promise to take on each area individually.

So, today I’d like to pick presence.

Recently, I stopped by a local bicycle store and was surprised  to see a beautiful turquoise chameleon resting on the wooden branch enhancing the sales counter. Fascinated by the unusual animal, I wanted to take a closer look. The chameleon was sitting to the left of me, looking in the opposite direction. Slowly, I took a breath in and while holding it, stepped quietly towards the animal. Aware of my presence, it tensed and moved one eye in my direction, readying for possible danger. The gap between us was still at least 2 feet apart, yet the creature knew I was there…

Just as a chameleon sensed my presence, we too are very sensitive to the presence of others. Without one word, we can establish a friendly or hostile contact. To be liked or disliked, trusted or untrusted. The difference between us— humans and animals, is that we often ignore this powerful tool available to us. In the animals’ world, their very survival depends on their own presence and the sensitivity to the presence of others. In the sports and performing arts, the same is true. Those with more “presence”  achieve  greater results and notoriety, develop more influence and impact the world.

As ambitious figure skating coach, with a dream of coaching at the Olympics, I realized this early in my career. In skating, we called presence the “IT” factor. Some athletes had “IT” and others didn’t. I didn’t believe it to be true and dedicated many years of my life studying what “IT” was and developing the methodology on how to consistently and quickly teach “IT” to all of my students, which I did with huge success.

As I moved away from skating, I noticed that presence is just as important for success in business and personal relationships as it was in skating competitions. However, just like in skating, only very elite speakers and entrepreneurs are consciously aware of this “quality” and have consistent rituals and discipline to develop more of IT. I was surprised how successful I became the very first time I spoke publicly, all because of the years of dedicated to presence practice. I was immediately labeled as a “natural speaker.”

In my Warrior Speaker Boot Camp, will teach you the very same tools and techniques I used to teach my elite skaters and myself to develop world-class presence. You will be shocked how quickly you’ll be able to go into “presence” state, become more vibrant, confident, and centered. In the small class setting you will receive individualized attention, so you will feel and see the immediate difference.

To register for the Warrior Speaker Boot Camp, click this link NOW.

Again, this is a very exclusive and private event! I expect it to be sold out. Please register early! Go here NOW for the registration. First 3 people registering for the event and filling out this questionnaire will receive 45 min private consultation with me, valued at $500!!!

Don’t wait to claim YOUR TICKET to the Extra Mile! Register NOW!


To your success,

Coach Faye

7 Areas of Focus for Successful Speaking

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Only 31 days left before the end of the year. While this is the time we think about presents, Christmas decorations and celebrations, business owners know that this is a critical time to plan ahead and get ready for the next year. How will you present yourself? What is your vision? What new skills do you need to develop to position yourself ahead of the competition? A friend of mine said to me today, “I don’t understand some people. You give them a ticket to the extra mile, to win, but they won’t go there.” I had to agree, although, I am thrilled to know that so many of you are real movers and shakers, go-getters who are making a contribution to the world.

As a competitive figure skating coach, I was always looking for the opportunities to learn new tools to teach my athletes so we had an edge over the competition. The truth is, our customers will go and spend their money somewhere, why not with us? That was my mindset as a skating coach, and still is as a High-Performance Coach. Someone will win the Olympics, why not me? Now this maybe just a metaphor, but it applies to life on so many levels. What could you do to add a little edge? Many different things, and it is up to you to sit down and figure it out. It is selfish not to! Here, I will propose a couple of tactics.

  1. Mindset
  2. Speaking skills

Today, I’d like to focus on speaking skills. Up to date I attest that speaking has brought me tremendous fulfillment: emotionally, mentally, financially and spiritually! However, you must excel in it! There are 7 areas of focus:

  1. Presence
  2. Story
  3. Voice
  4. Body language
  5. Message
  6. Audience Control
  7. Preparation

These are the topics I cover in my Warrior Speaker Boot Camp that’s coming up this Saturday. (Watch your email box in the next several days as I will take on each of the 7 areas.)

Here is the link to registration.

This is a very exclusive and private event! I expect it to be sold out. Please register early! Go here NOW for the registration. First three people registering for the event and filling out this questionnaire will receive 45 min private consultation with me, valued at $500!!!

Don’t wait to claim YOUR TICKET to the Extra Mile! Register NOW!

To your success!

Coach Faye